Reaching Through the Diaspora
I had no idea what I was going to do with them, I just know I wanted them. In the meantime, I just had them on my desk & looked at them all the time & they always made me smile because I think they are so cool.
On a related note but not really, a few weeks ago, I finally got my 6 Barack Obama buttons that I ordered from his website. Just like the patches, I had no idea what I was going to do with all these buttons but I wanted them because they are cool. And just like with the patches, I poured the buttons onto my desk for the meantime.
One night while catching up on some online reading, I looked at my desk, then decided to pull out my camera & took the photo below (titled “Negroes for Obama”).

I really liked how the photo came out & tossed it up on Flickr & that was that.
Well, 2 weeks ago, Malcolm Quartey aka “Kwadwo Kwarte” one of my Flickr friends (from our brief photo commenting, I get the sense that this young brother is really cool & he has quite an interesting life and background), from Belgium responded to the image and we had the following dialogue:
Kwadwo “Hahaha, "Negroes for Obama", funny. I really love those colors, the alternative rasta/black pride-colors... I can't get these here in Belgium, but I wish I could...”
Bygbaby “Are they off limits or just not available?"
Kwadwo “Not available. I would not even know where to start searching for them. People here have no clue to black history. I mean, I don't even think they realise black people in America are decendants from slaves. The black people here in Blegium are all African immigrants, or their children (like me). Some of them/us really know our history, and black history in general, such as that of the Afro-Americans, but that's a minority. Now that I think about it, the only people I've ever seen wearing these colors were other Rastas, but real Rastas are also extremely rare here. I've only seen other genuine Rastas on sporadic occasions... Sad, isn't it?”
Bygbaby “Well my friend, I have three patches & can gift you one with no problem. Send me a message with your address & I will post it.”
Kwadwo “Wow, thanks! I'd say "no thanks", out of politeness, but I just can't refuse this ; )) I'l send you a message right now.
Blessed Love and Peace my brother!”
After a few more exchanges, the patch was making its way across the pond & I actually was really excited to send it. The excitement came from reaching out to another brother in the Diaspora half a world away, and it was cool to see someone as excited about the meaningful & colorful threads as I was. How could I not act !?!
Well Kwadwo got the patch last week he sent me this photos with him wearing it.

Although this cultural exchange was quite small in scale, it was big in heart I think for the both of us & I will never forget it.
Oh by the way, I stopped back into Specatcles yesterday & got another patch just in case.
Labels: Ala Bygbaby, Black Culture, Black History, BygFriends, Diaspora, Empowerment



19 Comments:
i love this post, byg! so sweet :) :)
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shea, at Monday, August 11, 2008 3:01:00 AM EDT
Nice. I like to see us reach out to one another. We need to do it mroe often. :-)
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sdg1844, at Monday, August 11, 2008 12:51:00 PM EDT
Love this story!
It is amazing that in the internet world there is the possibility of tremendous anonymity and connection at the same time.
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AnnaC, at Monday, August 11, 2008 4:40:00 PM EDT
OH wow...this is great! Such integrity!
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Darius T. Williams, at Monday, August 11, 2008 5:02:00 PM EDT
they look good folk, real good
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Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T, at Tuesday, August 12, 2008 8:09:00 AM EDT
This is what I am talking about! One random act of kindness can mean alot. Thanks for sharing.
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ingridspeak, at Tuesday, August 12, 2008 9:28:00 AM EDT
What a utie pie he is :-)
I remember those from when I was really little. They were in vogue with the wooden Black Power fists for display and the black, red, and green afro picks.
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Invisible Woman, at Tuesday, August 12, 2008 7:29:00 PM EDT
Wow, this really made me smile :-)
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DJ Black Adam, at Wednesday, August 13, 2008 10:47:00 AM EDT
Gosh, what a story. (wipes away tear!) You should submit this to a magazine or something. It's so nice to see how the internet can bring folks together in ways we surely never expect.
And by the way, I can get a house for $1 in Detroit??? http://tinyurl.com/5rdttv
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Los Angelista, at Wednesday, August 13, 2008 3:03:00 PM EDT
I have not felt like dealing with my blog much this week so sorry for not getting back until now.
Thx so much for the feedback. It is cool on how the world is so much smaller thx to the internet. And it seems so much easier to make friends online that in real life, well there may be a good reason for that.
Liz - "You should submit this to a magazine or something." That means a lot coming from you cuz I think all of your stuff could be syndicated. I would not have the 1st clue on where to start.
Oh yeah, I saw that story this morning & it is a hot damn mess!!!
I asked Suite Suzy this AM if she would be interested in purchasing some lots in Detroit to hold on too & she hung up in my face before I could finish my sentence. Just kidding, but she did tell me to do the research on it. She did that because she knows that I am lazy as hell & will not follow up.
Detroit is so fucked up right now.
I called Cousin Dee this am after reading this story as well & told her that I would have offer ¢60 as a counter offer for that piece of shit house that looks like it is going to collapse at the next hard wind. She was like, she would have told them to just give it to her. We cracked up!!!
Bygbaby
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Bygbaby, at Wednesday, August 13, 2008 4:51:00 PM EDT
He is a cutie pie! And that was really nice of you, too. Kudos!
L
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Lola Gets, at Wednesday, August 13, 2008 5:00:00 PM EDT
This is a cool story. All I can say is "it's a black thing" I don't think any other race would be as prideful as you were about "sending a patch over seas" Big whoop right? Much respect Bro!
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Smitty, at Wednesday, August 13, 2008 10:33:00 PM EDT
awwwww...love this story!!!
he's a cutie! lol
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Cluizel, at Thursday, August 14, 2008 8:04:00 PM EDT
Lola - I don't deal with no ugly people LOL!!!
Smitty - Thx man!
Cluizel - Thx, I am not sure if he has been back & seen all the comments but maybe he can get him an American boo. LOL!!!
Bygbaby
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Bygbaby, at Monday, August 18, 2008 11:21:00 AM EDT
Ok, you know what? I get the whole cultral exchange black power yaddah yaddah yaddah...
...buy damn he's fiiiiiine!!!
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sunsail, at Monday, August 18, 2008 3:05:00 PM EDT
Ok, you know what? I get the whole cultral exchange black power yaddah yaddah yaddah...
...buy damn he's fiiiiiine!!!
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sunsail, at Monday, August 18, 2008 3:05:00 PM EDT
This was a great post. Loved the picture, real handsome. Peace. From another Flickr Friend and fellow sisterlocks person. Litetravler
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Anonymous, at Saturday, August 23, 2008 11:20:00 AM EDT
Hehehe, I don't know if I'm more pleased about the cultural exchange across the diaspora, or about the fact that quite a few people think I look cute ;-)
Maybe I should go over to America and get myself an "American boo"
:-)
Blessed Love and Peace to One and All.
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Malcolm Kwadwo Kwarte Quartey, at Monday, October 13, 2008 5:15:00 PM EDT
Malcolm - Your potential for an American Boo is looking pretty good!!!
Tafari
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Tafari, at Monday, October 13, 2008 7:50:00 PM EDT
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